So what happens after those two or three years are over and that newlywed/honeymoon feeling is slowly starting to fade? You see the homemade cards and poems slowly disappearing and the romantic doings are far and few between now. What do you do then? Is that it? The end of the honeymoon? Now you're in the comfortable stage. Where you promise that next year you'll make something for Valentines day or next year we'll go out for dinner, but it never actually happens.
What do you do then? Do you force that honeymoon phase into another year or do you accept the fact and keep going? Do you reminisce about those days when everything was so blissful and amazing? What if relationships were just that, the honeymoon phase. You date for a couple of years until that phase stats to die out a bit and then shake hands, say it's been fun and move on. Sounds kind of nice.
What if you CAN have both, the honeymoon phase AND the comfortable settled in phase. That's gotta be the perfect relationship and I'm sure it's out there. Kudos to you if you have that.
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